Are we really the same? -- The eight gender blind spots -- Do women need men to change? -- Do men appreciate women? -- Are women being excluded? -- Do men have to walk on eggshells with women? -- Do women ask too many questions? -- Do men listen? -- Are women too emotional? -- Are men insensitive? -- Growing in our gender intelligence -- Building trust with women, increasing credibility with men -- Bridging our different values -- Achieving work-life harmony for women and men.